Does whatever happens in our life depends on our destiny or solely upon our actions?

Does whatever happens in our life depends on our destiny or solely upon our actions?

Destiny and Actions , both are connected.
If your horoscope told you that you will get passed in your exams with Full A+ ,wont you study and wait for your destiny to do it...? never na...?
If you believe in god you have to believe in your destiny too....
Make your actions right and do it in a proper way , you will reach where your Life wanted you to get reached.

“When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.” 
  ― Paulo Coelho The Alchemist
its not just a quote, if you make it practical it will be true....there is something waiting for you in your life , that's your destiny .

Your entire life , Your actions ...,all belongs to that destiny.
Whatever happens in Life , there will be a reason .Nothing will happen without a reason..sometimes we know why it happened , and some times we call it as fate...

Destiny is written , ( Only if you believe in god) But you may not aware of...
finding out your destiny through your actions make your Life meaningful......

You are the creator of your Destiny ....
so be genuine for what you are doing ,....
Work hard...... ,
Achieve what you want to ......,
Make your dear ones happy .......,
you will find out what your Life wants .....and there your Destiny lies.

Should I Need To Change Myself For Someone Else ?

Should I Need To Change Myself For Someone Else ?

I am a social animal . So I have to change myself for people and situation .
When I am at home I can do anything ..can behave like as I wish..
But when I am in a public place I have to change Myself.
I need to be calm...
Have to Speak Less and Listen More..
Changing Myself means I am trying to be SOmeOne , for SOmeOne....It matters...!

How can I change Myself...?
Why should I have to change Myself....?
If I changed....,Is it possible to accept the new ME...?


Often this change happens when we are in a relation (not only for a relation..... :-) )
And basically such a change was done by a woman for her man.
This happens only because of insecurity.Women always afraid of getting Lost..., Being alone....,Feeling Avoided...
To avoid these and to be getting loved and cared they start to change themselves.

Changing our self for SOmeOne Else....??
We are loosing what we are....!
What if SOmeOne cannot accept us the way we are...?
Most of the woman accept a Man the way he .....But a man cannot....!!!!! ???
If SOmeOne cannot accept the real YOU that means He / she is not respecting you...

What are you is making you to Love yourself..., respect yourself..
If you are Loving SOmeOne or SOmeOne Loves you - you both will respect and accept each other..then you don't need to change yourself...

Just think if you are changing yourself for SOmeOne....
Like you changed your food habit , your dressing style , the way you speak , the way you behave ,the way you think..
what will happen to you..?

You may continue this for 10-20 years...
After that ..?
You may start to think about the old YOU..
Getting irritated....
getting desperate....
Start hating yourself...
Start hating people who made you to be like this...
At last you will decide that your life is Zero...
And you lived it for making someone satisfied...

What was your life...?
Are you Lived....?
Is this the way you want to live your life....?
Are you satisfied...?

So it is better to be WHAT YOU ARE than BEING ZERO
You can make adjustments.
But never kill the real you....
Be Yourself,..., If someone really loves you He can accept you ,the way you are....!!!!

What is the meaning of life?

What is the meaning of life?

The meaning of life lies in the following things..

• Enjoy Every moment ....
• Don't Blame your past....
• Don't Bother about your future and just Live i n Present ....
• Do small things with Great Love.....
• Be passionate for what you are doing....
• Be helpful...
• Be strong .....
• Be ready to face everything and Beleive in god.....
• Just Be your self....
• Forget and Forgive......
• If anyone make you feel bad , Punish them with a great smile from heart....
• If anyone make you happy , Give them a little hug with beautiful smile....
• If anyone need you , Be there....
• Dont follow the footsteps someone paved...
• make your own path ...., Let someone follow you..

                         If u can make these things practical U will get the meaning of your Life..........
Simply The MEANING of LIFE is to LIVE....

Why do people change over time?

Why do people change over time?

 CHANGE is the only one thing which always change.

Every one always want to live a comfort life. A life of their own....

They want to move on with their comfort zone.

for that they have to adapt changes to suit with every situation .

Basically Everyone is selfish ...

My , mine , My family , My friends , My collegues , My things etc...

They always want to Live inside the circle called " I and MINE ".....

So sure , People will change over time...

ME toooooo....:-) ;-)

What should I say when people say me you are a black guy?

What should I say when people say me you are a black guy?

yes , I am a Black guy ...so what ..??
I can speak ....

I can hear.....
I can see....
I can walk....
I am blessed with all the senses......
I am blessed with all the inner beauty .......
Even now I can understand your attitude towards color ...
So many people don't have all these qualities together ...
If I am blessed with all these things , why should I have to worry about my color...????
I am happy with what I have ......
Thank God for not to make me white .....!!!

WHY YOU......???

It is the most painful moment when i realize that you are far away from me....
Those dreams we shared are apart from destiny...
You are the one who gave me strength ,
for every crucial situations I faced.

Life is a choice for everyone to live....
But you were my choice to live this life..
You came to my life without my permission ,
And give me the hope to expect...

I always afraid to expect.....
Expectation gives pain....!!
Even though it is a pain ....I too love to expect..
I dont know when my heart starts to seek feelings...
But when feelings ruled me ....,
I lost my self and my world changed....

More to say...I cann't...
Need to say...I am afraid...
But my heart is compelling me...
You are not mine....I know .
But if you are not there to hear....,
how will my words find its meaning...??

It is easy to say a Good Bye...
But a Good Bye is not enough to forget what you give.....
Living in your memories are more difficult...
But I will.......

"What we want to forget in our life will attack us deeply. Situations and peoples insist us to remember that..how bad......! This is the play of life....when we start to forget everything and try to believe in fate life opens its playground without our permission.....and we fight to survive........."

memories have the power to destroy us.....................!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!