Should I Need To Change Myself For Someone Else ?

Should I Need To Change Myself For Someone Else ?

I am a social animal . So I have to change myself for people and situation .
When I am at home I can do anything ..can behave like as I wish..
But when I am in a public place I have to change Myself.
I need to be calm...
Have to Speak Less and Listen More..
Changing Myself means I am trying to be SOmeOne , for SOmeOne....It matters...!

How can I change Myself...?
Why should I have to change Myself....?
If I changed....,Is it possible to accept the new ME...?


Often this change happens when we are in a relation (not only for a relation..... :-) )
And basically such a change was done by a woman for her man.
This happens only because of insecurity.Women always afraid of getting Lost..., Being alone....,Feeling Avoided...
To avoid these and to be getting loved and cared they start to change themselves.

Changing our self for SOmeOne Else....??
We are loosing what we are....!
What if SOmeOne cannot accept us the way we are...?
Most of the woman accept a Man the way he .....But a man cannot....!!!!! ???
If SOmeOne cannot accept the real YOU that means He / she is not respecting you...

What are you is making you to Love yourself..., respect yourself..
If you are Loving SOmeOne or SOmeOne Loves you - you both will respect and accept each other..then you don't need to change yourself...

Just think if you are changing yourself for SOmeOne....
Like you changed your food habit , your dressing style , the way you speak , the way you behave ,the way you think..
what will happen to you..?

You may continue this for 10-20 years...
After that ..?
You may start to think about the old YOU..
Getting irritated....
getting desperate....
Start hating yourself...
Start hating people who made you to be like this...
At last you will decide that your life is Zero...
And you lived it for making someone satisfied...

What was your life...?
Are you Lived....?
Is this the way you want to live your life....?
Are you satisfied...?

So it is better to be WHAT YOU ARE than BEING ZERO
You can make adjustments.
But never kill the real you....
Be Yourself,..., If someone really loves you He can accept you ,the way you are....!!!!