Should I Need To Change Myself For Someone Else ?

Should I Need To Change Myself For Someone Else ?

I am a social animal . So I have to change myself for people and situation .
When I am at home I can do anything ..can behave like as I wish..
But when I am in a public place I have to change Myself.
I need to be calm...
Have to Speak Less and Listen More..
Changing Myself means I am trying to be SOmeOne , for SOmeOne....It matters...!

How can I change Myself...?
Why should I have to change Myself....?
If I changed....,Is it possible to accept the new ME...?


Often this change happens when we are in a relation (not only for a relation..... :-) )
And basically such a change was done by a woman for her man.
This happens only because of insecurity.Women always afraid of getting Lost..., Being alone....,Feeling Avoided...
To avoid these and to be getting loved and cared they start to change themselves.

Changing our self for SOmeOne Else....??
We are loosing what we are....!
What if SOmeOne cannot accept us the way we are...?
Most of the woman accept a Man the way he .....But a man cannot....!!!!! ???
If SOmeOne cannot accept the real YOU that means He / she is not respecting you...

What are you is making you to Love yourself..., respect yourself..
If you are Loving SOmeOne or SOmeOne Loves you - you both will respect and accept each other..then you don't need to change yourself...

Just think if you are changing yourself for SOmeOne....
Like you changed your food habit , your dressing style , the way you speak , the way you behave ,the way you think..
what will happen to you..?

You may continue this for 10-20 years...
After that ..?
You may start to think about the old YOU..
Getting irritated....
getting desperate....
Start hating yourself...
Start hating people who made you to be like this...
At last you will decide that your life is Zero...
And you lived it for making someone satisfied...

What was your life...?
Are you Lived....?
Is this the way you want to live your life....?
Are you satisfied...?

So it is better to be WHAT YOU ARE than BEING ZERO
You can make adjustments.
But never kill the real you....
Be Yourself,..., If someone really loves you He can accept you ,the way you are....!!!!

What is the meaning of life?

What is the meaning of life?

The meaning of life lies in the following things..

• Enjoy Every moment ....
• Don't Blame your past....
• Don't Bother about your future and just Live i n Present ....
• Do small things with Great Love.....
• Be passionate for what you are doing....
• Be helpful...
• Be strong .....
• Be ready to face everything and Beleive in god.....
• Just Be your self....
• Forget and Forgive......
• If anyone make you feel bad , Punish them with a great smile from heart....
• If anyone make you happy , Give them a little hug with beautiful smile....
• If anyone need you , Be there....
• Dont follow the footsteps someone paved...
• make your own path ...., Let someone follow you..

                         If u can make these things practical U will get the meaning of your Life..........
Simply The MEANING of LIFE is to LIVE....

Why do people change over time?

Why do people change over time?

 CHANGE is the only one thing which always change.

Every one always want to live a comfort life. A life of their own....

They want to move on with their comfort zone.

for that they have to adapt changes to suit with every situation .

Basically Everyone is selfish ...

My , mine , My family , My friends , My collegues , My things etc...

They always want to Live inside the circle called " I and MINE ".....

So sure , People will change over time...

ME toooooo....:-) ;-)

What should I say when people say me you are a black guy?

What should I say when people say me you are a black guy?

yes , I am a Black guy ...so what ..??
I can speak ....

I can hear.....
I can see....
I can walk....
I am blessed with all the senses......
I am blessed with all the inner beauty .......
Even now I can understand your attitude towards color ...
So many people don't have all these qualities together ...
If I am blessed with all these things , why should I have to worry about my color...????
I am happy with what I have ......
Thank God for not to make me white .....!!!